We Are All Moments Full Of Fate
Our society is largely built on values that focus on materialism, logic and objectivity first. It feels like we want to control every aspect of our life in order to get the best possible in every moment.
But in truth, everyday life is not possible after the introduction of these concepts. Human beings also have to adapt to the unpredictable, to the fact that they do not always get what they want and that they cannot control their fellow human beings.
Man is usually afraid of the unpredictable, of what he has no power over. The emptiness, or even our own freedom, scares us, as if we were basically scared of ourselves.
Believing in fate is something not everyone accepts. Because in a certain way, we lose control of things and immediately remember that we are allowing chaos to rule our everyday lives.
But you don’t have to be so extreme about this thought. It’s just about having an open mind, being flexible and understanding that many things in our lives are slipping out of our hands and that this loss of control can frighten many people.
We often cannot deny that our egocentric behavior blinds us and we ask ourselves: “Why is this happening to me ?!” We complain and slip into this victim role instead of looking at it from another side.
Instead of asking yourself why this happened to you, you could ask yourself what you think this happened to you for. It’s a learning process and changing your perspective.
Accept the chaos, fate and the unpredictable
We know that it is not easy to accept that sometimes unpredictable things happen to us and that this destroys the balance that we have worked so hard to achieve. For example, you make an effort to get the best out of yourself to do your job, but all of a sudden your company files for bankruptcy and the stability of your job is ruined.
Asking yourself why negative things are happening to you is a conscious complaint that makes things worse – your despair grows immeasurably. Concentrate on your personal strategy to somehow change the rupture of your existence.
No matter what happens to us, good or bad, it can be the work of fate. We don’t know, but what we need to realize is that this or that is happening to us because we are supposed to learn something from it.
I am convinced that you know more than just one person who has an absolute compulsion to control and wants to control every aspect of their life. And not only your own, but also the lives of others.
They are people who place high demands on themselves and who do not accept and distrust mistakes, carelessness, the unpredictable and fate full of uncertainty.
They usually love structures according to certain rules. And within these structures each person plays a certain role: the role of the good father, the good wife, the obedient child, the faithful friend.
Those who only concentrate on the predictable are afraid of fate and uncertainty. It is precisely at this point that we are tested by life in order to find ourselves, to challenge ourselves, to get to know each other better.
Life are moments created by wonderful fate
Life is full of fractions of emotional moments, but it is also full of moments that bring us sad moments. But all of this is part of life and is worth living. These are all breathtaking moments to define who you are at this point in time.
Do not regret a moment of your past, do not erase any memory. Keep it so that it becomes another part of you. Part of that perfect puzzle that has light and dark pieces. Dark parts so that you can start a new beginning and open yourself to what fate has in store for you.
It is said that life is an orderly chaos that we all believe we understand. But the truth is, we are groping in the dark and like children who are primarily afraid to try something and feel hurt when they have a bad experience.
So far so good. But how can we benefit from the unpredictable and fate in our everyday life ? In fact, many people complain that nothing good ever happens to them, that emotional things only happen to other people.
Here are a few suggestions:
-If you are someone in your everyday life who thinks that happiness doesn’t knock on your door that often, but it is still better not to expect more, because what can knock on the door may possibly be something worse , you are definitely not an advocate of the magic of fate.
– Our belief determines our thoughts, our thoughts our behavior and behavior determines the reality in which we currently live. So how about changing a few thoughts so that your life can change too?
-The simple fact of believing that you deserve better is already initiating change.
– Once you leave aside limited thoughts, negative and destructive behaviors, you can open your mind to all things.
Fate hides behind many corners, it is in certain moments, in so many perspectives, behind which your unpredictable fate can lie hidden. Dare to discover it!
Don’t let the circumstances spoil your life and look at life as a learning process without seeing things as very good or very bad. All of this is lived life, all of these are unique moments in life.
